Survived the Loss?
Now Heal and Triumph!

For women survivors of a devastating divorce, I offer step by step support to their Triumphant Phase of healed joy, new pleasurable love, and profound feminine confidence.

 

A Butterfly Woman is one who has been devastated by loss, yet is poised for a positive, powerful transformation into someone who she never could have become without it—learning to trust herself, love the way she feels, the way she looks and the way she acts in the world!

Feelings of betrayal and abandonment are real

I can tell you from personal and client experience, you can be a great wife and partner, take care of everyone and everything, and still be abandoned by your partner.

This can be a point of collapse, leaving you depressed and resentful (even stuck for decades) or it can be a point of radical transformation. There is no doubt that this transition requires managing grief, acceptance and initiation.

But this work is exactly what will allow you to become a Butterfly Woman, one who emerges hot, happy, satisfied and confident in your feminine juice.

“What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the Master calls the butterfly.”

— Richard Bach

Whether it happened recently or decades ago, you likely struggle with:

✓ Confusion about what went wrong--brain fog

✓ Obsessing about your partner or the situation

✓ Worry about your future

✓ Decreased self-confidence or increased self-righteousness 

✓ Needing a place for your anger and hurt

If we work together,
I promise you will: 

✓ Reframe your devastation as a triumph

✓ Catalyze your anger, hurt and disappointment

✓ See yourself with fresh eyes

✓ Transmute your confusion into clarity

✓ Feel great in your body as it is   

✓ Learn customized tips that reshape you—mind, body and soul

✓ Create your new delicious life

Hi, I'm Martha and I understand because I’ve been there.

In 2000, my husband returned from his day at 9pm and told me, while we sat on the edge of our bed, that he was moving out tomorrow—that he was unhappy and wanted to leave.  Our son was 20 months old at the time and I was devastated. 

Two days later, I was walking up East End Avenue in NYC and a loud voice spoke through me: 

“THIS IS NOT GOING TO BREAK ME. 
I CHOOSE LIFE”. 

Since then, I have listened to that voice. I studied and taught the modalities that lit me up from the inside and contributed to me feeling vibrantly alive and like a butterfly!  I am smart, intuitive, and compassionate and I now look inside myself for my worth, my truths and my vibrancy.  

I created the Butterfly Woman Journey just for you, based on what you are going through right now--knowing what is possible. 

We can easily get stuck in the cocoon stage before the butterfly emerges.
Would you like support while you’re in your cocoon?

How We Can Work Together:

Private Session
Address a Current Challenge

You’ll leave your private session with:

  • A new fresh perspective on a current challenge

  • A practice that provides a profound shift  

  • Clarity for practical action steps

Investment: $280

Triumphant Confidence 
A Two Month Beginner's Journey

My Promises to You:

  • Walk through this time with support so you don’t get stuck

  • Learn customised practices that keep you sane, grounded and reshape you, body, mind and soul

  • Feel great in your body as it is now

  • Discover the colors that light up your beauty

Includes 8 private sessions, 8 practices, your personalized color palette, and voice message access.  

Investment: $2400

Triumphant Life Makeover 
An Eight Month Transformation

My Promises to You:

  • Create your post breakup life in your own best image

  • Have customized practices for mind, body and soul

  • Recreate your look based on colors and design that boost your beauty

  • Transform your home into sacred space that delights you

  • Walk with a new hot confidence

  • Unlock the blocks to your full sexual satisfaction

  • Gain practical tools and a plan to support you for the rest of your life

Includes 32 private sessions, customized practices, personalized color palette and design codes, shopping support, life strategies.  

Investment: $8800

I have been teaching people to access their heart-centered power since 2001 and I am delighted to focus on women who have been through this nightmare, to help them manifest the power to thrive and positively effect everyone in their realm and beyond.  

The Butterfly Woman Journey integrates my personal gifts and experience to help harmonize and transform your life:

➤ My laser focused and practical mind from being a health care lawyer in the late 1990s

➤ My sense of rhythm and musicality from being a dancer since I was 4 years old

➤ My nurturing nature from being a single and devoted mother since 1998

➤ Master level teaching and coaching skills as a yoga teacher and spiritual counselor in Philadelphia for 3 years and New York City for 19 years 

➤ My passion and skills for the intentional use of color and design from coaching divine feminine leadership and embodiment since 2016 

➤ My enthusiasm for approaching sexuality with reverence and as a powerful tool for transformation since 2017 and as a Desilets Method Embodied Psycho-Sexuality Practitioner

  • Martha taught me the tools to survive some tough times. She taught me to be kind to myself through this process, understand that each day is a new day and to treasure the body I was given. It is unique to me.

    Jodi

  • Transitioning while Transforming—that’s what Martha’s magic helped me do. Her expert eye and educated intuition melded to see my individual essence through color and style. She helped me navigate the aftermath of a messy divorce all while connecting to my vibrant soul, even when I felt less than. She taught me to wear colors, fabrics and designs as a form of communication and to create intimacy with myself. When I needed strength I wore colors that supported me in that. When I needed balance, I was conscious not only of color but the flow of my clothing. How I feel in the world is directly synced to how I feel in my clothing, in my skin. Martha supported me through every step. Change is inevitable. Changing with grace and vibrancy is a skill. Thank you Martha

    Holly

  • Martha has helped me navigate single motherhood by showing me how to rebuild from the inside out through coaching and utilizing mindfulness practices. She supports me by getting to the root of what I need to work on and by finding a game plan for stability and change. Martha is helping me find my internal strength and confidence again. I can’t thank Martha enough! I highly recommend working with Martha. She is someone who emanates what I aspire to become and I feel comfortable as well as safe opening up to and working with her.

    Becca

  • I highly recommend Martha. She guided me through many transitions and I always come out with a deeper more embodied understanding of my truth.

    Tracy

  • These women are so lucky to have you.

    Mark

  • You are brilliant. Having something specifically designed for women who have gone though this is such a gift. It is a lonely place to be and this is like a warm embrace.

    Deborah

  • Martha I've been kind of flying like high today on our collaboration and what you teach me and how I flow through the world. You're a great teacher!

    Rachel

  • The work we did together showed me what I will no longer tolerate—anything that doesn’t feel good and right and integritous and that sacrifices the power of my womb is no longer pleasurable or possible. I now have very different standards for myself and for my future partners, including a new solid foundation of safety and deep self honouring.

    Autumn

Claim YOUR Life Now

Schedule your half-hour complimentary session,
“Creating a Path for Your Triumphant Life.”

This first step in your Butterfly Woman Journey will help us plan what’s next and learn whether we are a good match for one of the offerings outlined above.

This is for you if: 

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You are open to new perspectives

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You want to choose to show up for yourself rather than feel defeated

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You have done at least a basic level of spiritual or personal development work

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You are able to spend some time with new practices 

“Martha radiates as an agent of change, ushering a revolution of radical feminine, love, truth, and liberty in all beings, rejoicing in the delight of life.” 

I’d be honored to connect with you to learn both how you are and whether I can serve your highest good…

Love,
Martha🧡